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James Marshall's avatar

Spot on. I try and ensure that the children (because that is what they are) enjoy every session and want to come back. If they come back, they get better.

That doesn't mean playing a circus clown: it means balancing challenge, learning, skill and play. It's supposed to be fun.

That's the advantage of running my own sports club: I'm not dancing to the tune of governing bodies who want results NOW!

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Al Forte's avatar

I’ve been thinking about this post a lot. It’s easy to pick out coaches who focus exclusively on winning as having substituted their own adult goals for the goals of the child. But, really, how different is the high school or college coach exhorting youth coaches to focus on development and preparing them for the next level? Especially when development comes at the expense of kids actually playing and having fun?

To a certain extend “development” can be just as much a part of an adult agenda as winning at all costs. Does that coach stressing development care about how much fun a kid is having or are they just hoping to get an incoming class full of kids they don’t have to teach to play man to man defense? Sure, that’s their prerogative, but let’s stop pretending they’re not more focused on their own needs than those of a kid who may not make their team.

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