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"If we are hunting the highest version of ourselves, then we need to turn work into play and not the other way round."

Buying the Kotler book just after reading that quote. If I had to describe my coaching, when I'm coaching my best, it would be that quote.

I don't know if you are familiar with Laszlo Polgar, who raised his daughters to be chess prodigies to prove that genius was trainable and went so far as to publicly advertise for a wife to have children with to help him embark on this project. A quest so tiger parent-ish it almost seems to border on abusive.

But what's surprising is that when you read the book he wrote (translated as either Raise A Genius or Bring Up Genius) he basically just talks about how to make playing chess so fun that they will want to play for 5 hours a day... let the kid win... start with simplified end-game puzzles... don't criticize them when they lose just play again... play many quick games rather than one long one... don't worry if they can't always physically control their body while they are thinking because kids think through their body rather than sitting silently... etc

He doesn't use that exact phrase but basically that quote of turning work into play could probably sum it up. Regardless of what you think of the ideological bent of his project of creating child geniuses, it's almost the opposite of what we tend to think of as hardcore intensive "training."

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